My first post

Read these lines.....these shows one way of approach in/to the Life.....

When someone is doing something or about to do something, in a way I don't want it to be done - and i m not able to accept it - i become angry.
When someone is doing something or about to do something, in a way I don't want it to be done - and i m able to accept it - i remain tolerant.

When someone is having something or someone is able to produce the results which i m not able to produce - and I m not able to accept it - I become jealous.
When someone is having something or someone is able to produce the results which i m not able to produce - and i m able to accept it - i get inspired.

When i m encountering uncertainty or about to encounter uncertainty, which i m not sure how i m going to handle - and i m not able to accept it - it causes fear in me.
When i m encountering uncertainty or about to encounter uncertainty, which i m not sure how i m going to handle - and i m able to accept it - i feel adventurous about it.

When someone has done something that has emotionally hurt me - and i m not able to accept it - it develops hatred in me.
When someone has done something that has emotionally hurt me - and i m able to accept it - it helps me forgive them.

When someone is present in my thoughts, but is not physically present - and i m not able to accept it - i say 'i m missing u'.
When someone is present in my thoughts, but is not physically present - and i m able to accept it - i say 'i m thinkin of u'.

Thus, Emotional Equation becomes:

Something + acceptance = positive emotion
Something + non-acceptance = negative emotion

So, it is not 'something' or 'someone' who is making me feel positive or negative, but it's my 'acceptance' or 'non-acceptance' of something or someone, which impacts things.

What do u think? ...............Now scroll the next lines....This is what I think.....


Anger comes from the Fear of loss...

Tolerance comes from the Maturity...

Jealous comes from the inferiority..

Inspiration comes from the success...

Fear comes from the inability....

Adventure comes from the eagerness...

One always hurts another if he has a functioning heart, One always forgives another if he has a living heart....

One always miss someone when he dont understand the relation,One always thinks about some one when he loves the personality.

So,
(maturity+success+eagerness+living heart+love) - (fear of loss + inferiority+inability+functioning heart+misunderstanding) = True Human Being


----kiran